Community can be defined so many different ways.  A group of people with common stories, struggles, or experiences.  Sharing a common place or interest. Community could be substituted for tribe, fraternity, fellowship, group, communion, connection, network, social system, etc.  So, how many communities are you part of?  More importantly, does your gifted child fit in your local community?

“If your child marches to a different beat, a different drummer, you might just have to go along with that music.  Help them achieve what’s important to them.” – Sonia Sotomayor

Often, gifted individuals do not always fit.  The description of the square peg and round hole is another analogy comparable to the above-quoted reference to a different drummer.  Sometimes it takes time for us to find our “tribe.”  It is easier for us as adults because we have had more time.  But, for some gifted children they need more support.  Even some gifted adults need support.  And, in some communities parents of gifted need support too.  Have you found gifted support in your community for your child or for you as a parent of a gifted child?  It is important that we support our society’s gifted children for who they are and help them achieve their goals.  

It is important that we support our child’s need for community.  And, it is important that we as parents of gifted support our own need for community.  Sadly, many have no clue on where to find that community.  Not every campus has gifted classes or programs or parent support groups.  Not every district has SENG support groups.  Many parents are told their child is gifted but then nothing else.  Some parents find out about their child’s giftedness through private doctors and do not know how to navigate the educational system.  Thus, it is critical that those of us who have found supportive gifted community spread the word.

I admit, as a trained school psychologist, I was not told much about gifted education or gifted support groups.  I learned as a parent and by coincidence.  The assistant principal who was also the gifted coordinator was going through training for gifted certification and happened to use our son as an example in a discussion.  The presenter gave her the name of Texas Parents of Profoundly Gifted (TPPG) and instructed her to have us apply.  That Monday, she gave me a personal note with a name, website, and email address.  I was floored!  The application was completed and sent off within the week.  And, I treasure the support we have received and continue to receive from them.  But, I got lucky.  Some parents aren’t that lucky.

If you can’t find a local support community then you need to turn online.  I admit that in addition to a state level support from TPPG, I have many online gifted support communities.  Hoagies’ Gifted  has an extensive list of gifted online support covering blogs, social networking sites, podcasts, mailing lists and more.  You do not have to be on Facebook to find online support.  There are mailing lists and blogs.  And, there are even gifted camps and retreats.  If you are on Facebook, search the terms gifted or Mensans or poppies and you’ll find groups.  Although many schools do not know of these groups, hopefully, those of us in the gifted community will continue to share our resources for the better of our greater community.

Here are some great places for finding a gifted community:

The organizations listed above are not exhaustive.  However, for a parent who knew of no support or very little, this will hopefully help you find a community for you and your child.  In addition, the above organizations could also be helpful to schools in informing students or parents.  If you are looking for summer gifted programs, then check out the lists given by Hoagies’ and Davidson as they have extensive lists.  I know the school year is now starting, but you can use these lists to help for planning and budgeting for next summer.

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This blog article is part of the Hoagies’ Gifted Education Page Blog Hop on “Community.”  I thank my friends at Hoagies’ Gifted Education Page and elsewhere for their inspiration, support, and suggestions.

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